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Yo boys i am singing a song
Soup song
Flop song
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Why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di
Rhythm correct
Why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di
Maintain this
Why this kolaveri..aaa Di

Distance la moon-u moon-u
moon-u color-u white-u
white background night-u night-u
night-u color-u black-u

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Why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di

white skin-u girl-u girl-u
girl-u heart-u black-u
eyes-u eyes-u meet-u meet-u
my future dark

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maama notes eduthuko
appadiye kaiyla snacks eduthuko

Pa pa pa ppaan- Pa pa pa ppan-Pa pa pa ppaan pa pa ppan
pa pa paan pa pa paan pa pa paa pa pa paan
sariya vaasi

super maama ready
ready 1 2 3 4

whaa wat a change over maama

ok maama now tune change-u

kaila glass
only english-a..

hand la glass
glass la scotch
eyes-u full-aa tear-u
empty life-u
girl-u come-u
life reverse gear-u
lovvu lovvu
oh my lovvu
you showed me bouv-u
cow-u cow-u holy cow-u
i want u hear now-u
god i m dying now-u
she is happy how-u

this song for soup boys-u
we don’t have choice-u

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Zhe yindu nanzi shi shui?
ta weisheme lai?
youren ma ta shi heshang.
youren shuo ta shi shen

Zhe yindu nanzi shi shui?
ta weisheme lai?
youren ma ta shi heshang.
youren shuo ta shi shen

Ta zhi hao ni de wo de bing
ta wei women zuo wanju
ta jiao women da jia waiyu
women chang tai mier ge

thaaye tamil-e vanangugiren 
unnoda thodangugiren
ezhai enthan naavil neeye
kovil kondaaiye!”

Ta hen qiguai hen qiguai hen qiguai
ta chang ding zhe qiangbi.
ta yu niao lei he dongwu jiaoten.
women hen ai hen ai ta

Damo hui bu huilai?
damo hui bu huilai?

Complete Meaning of this song in English Traslation :

Who is this Indian
why did he come here
some call him a monk
some call him a god

He cured us from the diseases
made a toy to play with,
thought us a foriegn language
and made me to sing in tamil !

Oh tamil godess, i bow to you,
i start with you
you are with us, the poor !
and got a temple !

He is a very very different person
he would be seeing the great wall of china
and he would talk with a bird suit
and we loved him to the core

Dhamo, will you comeback ?
will we be able to see him ?

Point 1:

Cucumbers contain most of the vitamins you need every day, just one cucumber contains Vitamin B1, Vitamin B2, Vitamin B3, Vitamin B5, Vitamin B6, Folic Acid, Vitamin C, Calcium, Iron, Magnesium, Phosphorus, Potassium and Zinc.

Point 2:

Feeling tired in the afternoon, put down the caffeinated soda and pick up a cucumber.
Cucumbers are a good source of B Vitamins and Carbohydrates that can provide that quick pick-me-up that can last for hours.

Point 3:

Tired of your bathroom mirror fogging up after a shower? Try rubbing a cucumber slice along the mirror, it will eliminate the fog and provide a soothing, spa-like fragrance.

Point 4:

Are grubs and slugs ruining your planting beds? Place a few slices in a small pie tin And your garden will be free of pests all season long. The chemicals in the cucumber React with the aluminium to give off a scent undetectable to humans but drive garden pests crazy and make them flee the area.

Point 5:

Looking for a fast and easy way to remove cellulite before going out or to the pool?
Try rubbing a slice or two of cucumbers along your problem area for a few minutes, the phytochemicals in the cucumber cause the collagen in your skin to tighten, firming up the outer layer and reducing the visibility of cellulite. Works great on wrinkles too!!!

Point 6:

Want to avoid a hangover or terrible headache? Eat a few cucumber slices before going to bed and wake up refreshed and headache free. Cucumbers contain enough sugar, B vitamins and electrolytes to replenish essential nutrients the body lost, keeping everything in equilibrium, avoiding both a hangover and headache!!

Point 7:

Looking to fight off that afternoon or evening snacking binge? Cucumbers have been Used for centuries and often used by European trappers, traders and explores for quick Meals to thwart off starvation.

Point 8:

Have an important meeting or job interview and you realize that you don’t have Enough time to polish your shoes? Rub a freshly cut cucumber over the shoe, its Chemicals will provide a quick and durable shine that not only looks great but also Repels water.

Point 9:

Out of WD 40 and need to fix a squeaky hinge? Take a cucumber slice and rub it along the problematic hinge, and voila, the squeak is gone!

Point 10:

Stressed out and don’t have time for massage, facial or visit to the spa? Cut up an entire cucumber and place it in a boiling pot of water, the chemicals and nutrients from the cucumber with react with the boiling water and be released in the steam, Creating a soothing, relaxing aroma that has been shown the reduce stress in new Mothers and college students during final exams.

Point 11:

Just finish a business lunch and realize you don’t have gum or mints? Take a
Slice of cucumber and press it to the roof of your mouth with your tongue for 30 seconds To eliminate bad breath, the phytochemcials will kill the bacteria in your mouth Responsible for causing bad breath.

point 12:

Looking for a ‘green’ way to clean your faucets, sinks or stainless steel? Take a Slice of cucumber and rub it on the surface you want to clean, not only will it remove Years of tarnish and bring back the shine, but is won’t leave streaks and won’t harm You fingers or fingernails while you clean.

Point 13:

Using a pen and made a mistake? Take the outside of the cucumber and slowly Use it to erase the pen writing, also works great on crayons and markers that the kids Have used to decorate the walls!!

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VIRTUALLY every Saturday, Ajai Chowdhry, chairman and CEO of HCL Infosystems and one of the six co-founders of India’s oldest computer company, HCL, spends a few hours listening to wannabe entrepreneurs. He listens to their ideas, looks at their business models and considers their pitches. Every once in a while, if he comes across an idea that interests or excites him, he goes a step further. He, and a few other senior executives like him, then ensure that that particular wannabe entrepreneur can manage to make the transition to actual entrepreneur.

They help out with critical start-up funding. But much more than money, they offer what these entrepreneurs really need and what they cannot find in any business school or bank. They offer mentoring and advice and the wisdom learnt through their experience of having walked this path earlier, on their own.

History of the story

It’s hard work, and consumes a lot of what every busy chief executive like Chowdhry is most short of — time. But he, and the dozens of other successful businessmen who form the Indian Angel Network, know that this is the critical difference between a dream staying on paper and the dream turning into reality.

Ajai Chowdhry should know that better than most. In 1976, his colleague in the Delhi Cloth Mills ( DCM), Shiv Nadar, had talked him, and four other colleagues and friends, into quitting DCM and starting their own computer company. Hindustan Computers Limited, as it was then known, managed to ship its first home designed, home- built microcomputer in 1978. Around the same time that a Syrian-American college drop-out called Steve Jobs had shipped his first microcomputer — the Macintosh.

This was the predecessor of the PC. But IBM was to lay claim to that term, and make it its own, a full three years later, when it managed to roll out its first desktop PC. IBM, of course, took a different route to becoming the world’s largest technology company. And Jobs took Apple on a different journey altogether, making it arguably the world’s most inventive technology company, and eventually the world’s most valuable one. Period.

But what of HCL? Just imagine. Thirty six years ago, all three companies were virtually at the same point in the industry’s lifecycle. Apple and HCL, in fact, were so similar, they could have been twins. Jobs started Apple in a garage.

Nadar, Chowdhry and their friends started their company in a south Delhi ‘ barsati’. Apple took an off- the- shelf microprocessor and built a computer around it. And then developed the software to make it run. HCL took an off- the- shelf microprocessor and built a computer around it. And then wrote the software to make it run. At virtually the same time.

Nearly four decades later, the picture has changed dramatically. Today, HCL is admittedly a very successful company. It has revenues in excess of $ 6 billion and is among the top five players in the country in all the sectors that it operates in.

Difference between HCL & Apple

But look at Apple. Apple recorded net sales ( in 2010) of over $ 65 billion. In the stock market, at $ 350 billion, Apple is nearly a hundred times more valuable than HCL. It is not just the top player in its segments in the US — it is the top player in the world.

What happened? Why did HCL get left behind, while Apple managed to surge ahead unstoppably? What was the ‘ X’ factor which powered Apple to such heights? Apple fans would unhesitatingly say: Steve Jobs. Yes, the man was a genius.

True, he had the uncanny ability to visualise not just what the consumer would want, but what the consumer would lust after, what the consumer would lose sleep over and what the consumer would be willing to queue up for hours and days in sun and rain to buy. There has never been an entrepreneur quite like him. Arguably, there never might be an entrepreneur quite like him again.

But if Apple and Jobs were in a special league, it does not mean that HCL was not something special too. It too was a powerhouse of invention. Not only did HCL develop a microcomputer at the same time as Apple or a desktop PC three years ahead of IBM. They continued to invent. HCL developed a working UNIX computer years ahead of Sun and its own relational database management system ( RDBMS) ahead of Oracle. In 1981, HCL’s Shiv Nadar funded two college dorm- mates who started a fledgling information technology training company called NIIT. Nevertheless, there was one key element which was different, the reason why Apple and Sun and IBM and Oracle became the kind of global giants that they are and the reason why HCL’s growth was stunted.

The difference was that HCL was an Indian company, working in Indian conditions.

The others were all American. And the ecosystem available to HCL and its American counterparts was incomparably different.

The very factor which helped create HCL may have helped to choke it, and companies like it. In 1977, George Fernandes’ quirky nationalism drove IBM out of India, opening the doors for HCL. But over the next 13 years — the unlucky 13 perhaps — before reforms started, government regulations and the licence permit Raj ensured that HCL was left comprehensively behind. It could not make enough computers to meet demand, because it didn’t have the licence to produce the extra number.

When it got the licence, it could not import the components needed, because foreign exchange was short and you needed a separate permit for precious foreign exchange. It could not move into other markets abroad because that was controlled too. And so on.

HCL can justifiably blame the lack of reforms for its lack of growth. But for hundreds of thousands of would- be inventors and entrepreneurs, there are still as many and equally insuperable hurdles, in their way. From a Kerala inventor reduced to sending emails to journalists about his heat exchanger which does the work of an AC at a hundredth the cost, to the son of a Gujarat potter whose ‘ rural fridge’ wins him global awards and recognition, but no help in product ionising it, the lack of an ecosystem which encourages and supports innovation and enterprise is killing off the vision of thousands of Indian Steve Jobs before they can be turned to reality.

Lesson from

That is the real lesson we can learn from looking at the life of Steve Jobs. Jobs was what he was because he was Steve Jobs — a genius. But Apple became Apple because it managed to find an environment where the company could convert its ideas into reality and reap adequate reward for its inventiveness.

What if Jobs had decided to stay on in India after his 1974 visit? What if he had started Apple in India, not the US? Could a college drop- out have managed to get the funding to start a company? Would anybody have taken the technology developed by a non- graduate seriously? The answer is obvious. It is not just enough to be inventive or even entrepreneurial.

Without a viable ecosystem which encourages new ideas, is genuinely open to competition and one which rewards intellectual innovation adequately, we would never be able to boast about our own Apples or our own Steves.

But two decades down the reforms road, we are still to learn that lesson,but even the decades later we make sure to read the same story & same development.

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Nothing happens until a sale takes place. Your actual ability to sell your product or service to your customer determines your profit or loss, success or failure, in business. The sales process, to be effective, must be planned and organized in detail from start to finish. Every word and action must be scripted, rehearsed and memorized. Nothing can be left to chance.

Sales Recipe

Making a sale is like cooking with a recipe. You must use the correct ingredient and blend them in the proper quantity with the right timing. All successful companies have developed a proven sales process that can be duplicated over and over. By using a proven sales system, you can accurately predict the quantity of your sales, the average size of your sales, and the profitability of your sales activities.

Prospecting

It is important to speak directly or by telephone to people who can and will buy and pay in a reasonable period of time. Start with your ideal customer profile. Who is he or she exactly-in terms of age, occupation, income, education? Who is he or she exactly—in terms of problems, wants, needs, attitudes, and experiences regarding your product or service? If you could advertise for perfect customers, how would you describe him or her?
Marketing and advertising is aimed at telling your ideal prospect that your product will help them. The ideal prospect has an immediate need for what you sell. The ideal prospect knows you, likes you, and respects your products or business. The ideal prospect can buy and pay for your product if he or she likes it.

Establish Rapport

Establishing rapport and trust with the customer is a must. The prospect will not listen to you or buy from you unless he/she likes you and believes that you are honest. Be friendly, straightforward and believable. Be punctual, prepared and properly dressed. Ask questions and listen carefully to the answers. Make no attempt to sell until the prospect is relaxed and comfortable with you. Identify what the customer needs so you can better sell to them. Ask carefully planned, structured questions so that you can fully understand the customer’s situation.
There is a direct relationship between asking questions and sales success. Plan your questions word-for-word in advance. Make no effort to sell or talk about your product. Seek first to understand, then to be understood.

Presenting Your Product or Service

Repeat back the specific needs or concerns that your prospect has expressed. Position yourself as a trusted advisor, dedicated to helping him solve his problem or achieve his goal with your product. Position yourself as a teacher-showing her how your product works to help her satisfy her needs. Match the customers expressed needs and concerns to the product or service. Focus on helping rather than selling. Conclude your presentation with an explanation of how the product is delivered or used. Invite questions.

Action Exercises

List three phrases or questions you can use or ask to determine if this is a qualified prospect.

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Although all women want to look their best most of the time with various beauty tips to enhance their beauty. In the middle of a lot of effort and skin care advice, we have forgotten, especially on our beautiful feet that are a true reflection of the overall appearance of a woman to take.

If we ignore our beautiful feet for a longer period, they become dry abrasive paper, become horny and unattractive. Although the effort, the beauty tips of your feet can be smooth and well again, but you can definitely get you the look of your beautiful roses feet by placing them with tender and loving advice additional skin care.

The feet are soft and beautiful desire of every woman, like the feet smooth and comfortable to the touch always adds a special touch to a woman’s persona. When to show you, your feet nice shoes and sandals were interesting, you can do this with our beauty tips beneficial for one or two times per week.

When it comes to beauty tips, the feet come to the lowest priority because they are easily hidden under your shoes, socks and slippers, but with our simple tips and great skin care, you can confidently wear open sandals. Here the beauty tips in stages, through which you are able to enjoy the sweetness of your feet beautiful.

The most important of all skin care tips for achieving beautiful feet is a soothing and relaxing foot bath on a regular basis, or at least twice a week. To spoil your beautiful feet, the feet in warm water in a small foot bath for 5-10 minutes and then add some to wash moisturizing body wash or quality of the feet with a small handful of Epsom salts.

Our skin care tips recommend that you use a good scrub your skin soften dry, scaly. If you do not just scrub, scrub a house with our beauty tips by adding 2 tablespoons of olive oil and 2 tablespoons white sugar can make. Rest your feet on the edge of the bath and foot massage rub into your beautiful feet, especially on the heels of hardening of the skin.
To get rid of the remaining slightly dry skin, our beauty tips you should clean a pumice stone on your feet and rinse your beautiful feet with warm water and rinse off with a soft towel.
Apply a moisturizing lotion on its feet thick, add a nice touch too sweet. In addition, our beauty tips using lotions have as a normal part of your shower to make your message more flexible beautiful feet.

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Do you compromise on the health of your hair by blow-drying it a little too often just so you can impress your colleagues? Or do you smear oodles of hair wax just so you can look the best even after the party is over? If your answer is yes, then you have a lesson or two to learn. Regular acts such as brushing, washing and blow-drying come with a set of dos and don’ts. We tell you what you are doing right or wrong.

Good hair habits

1. Combing your hair every day: As basic as it sounds, combing hair helps in distributing the natural oils and makes your hair look shinier and healthier.
2. Handling your hair carefully when it’s wet: An ideal way to treat wet hair would be to gently squeeze excess water and towel-dry it. Wet hair will snap at the slightest pressure.
3. Letting your hair breathe: At least for couple of hours in a day. Keep it free from clips, scrunchies, or rubber bands. This is important because the pressure around your head area needs to be released, so that it can regain its normal blood circulation.
4. Removing all the knots in your tresses before you shampoo: Knotted hair is more likely to break. After the knots have been removed, use a boar bristle brush to remove loose hair. If loose / knotted hair is not removed, they bring along other strands when they fall off.
5. Cleaning your brushes and combs: Did you know that your hair brush and comb are a breeding ground for germs? Sterilise your hair combs and plastic accessories once in a while. Dunk them in hot water that is infused with a few drops of antiseptic. This goes a lot away in preventing scalp infections.

Bad hair habits

1. Blow-drying your hair after every wash: This is the most damaging hair treatment. If you must, go in for cold-dry instead of a hot one. Regular blow-drying causes hair to become brittle, and break off.
2. Applying conditioner on your scalp: Over-conditioning your hair or applying conditioner on the scalp will make your hair look lifeless and greasy. It will even attract a lot of grime and dust if you are an outdoor person. Always start with a small amount of conditioner. That way, if it’s not enough, you can add more.
3. Not trimming: Hair needs to be pampered with a quick trim to keep split-ends at bay. In case you have bangs or fringes, get a trim when you see them growing out.
4. Not cleansing: Never let dust settle on your scalp. If your hair feels itchy after a long day in the outdoors, make sure to wash it before you call it a night. Instead of scratching your scalp (that could lead to infections), it is best to wash it with a mild shampoo.
5. Using soap on your hair: The chemicals in soaps are not meant for hair wash and may damage your natural texture and shine. If you run out of shampoo, tie your hair up in a bun until you find a sachet.

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The purpose of technology is to comfort human beings.

When spiritual values – human values – are ignored and neglected, technology brings fear and destruction instead of comfort.

Technology without human values would see nature as a dead object. Science gives insight into the life of nature, and spirituality makes nature come alive. For example, in the eyes of children, there is nothing dead in the world; animals, trees, the sun and the moon all are alive, and have emotions and feelings. But in the eyes of a stressed and ignorant person, even human beings are like robots or objects!

Technology without spirituality is destructive. Spirituality is the technology of consciousness, and the whole world is the play and display of consciousness.

One whose eyes are not yet opened is not amazed by the magnificence of this creation. Tell me, what in this creation is not a mystery? Birth is a mystery. Death is a mystery. Life itself is certainly a greater mystery.

Samadhi is being completely immersed in the mystery of life and in this creation. Your knowing or believing in it doesn’t really matter.

This creation is an unfathomable secret! A wise person makes no effort to conceal a secret. But he does not make an effort to reveal a secret either. For example, you do not talk about menstruation or death to a five-year-old. But as children grow older, these things are not hidden from them. They become known as a matter of course.

There are five secrets that are sacred and guarded by the subtle beings and angels in this creation.
They are:
Janama Rahasya or the secret of birth: Birth is a secret. How a soul takes a body, and the criteria for selecting the place and time of birth, type of body, and parents are all a secret.

Marana Rahasya or the secret of death: Death is a highly guarded secret. Death remains a mystery. The process of separation of spirit from matter and its journey from then on is a secret.

Raja Rahasya or the secret of governance: The principles of governing and the principles of maintaining orderliness in creation are a secret.

Prakriti Rahasya or the secret of nature: Nature is a mystery. The more you know about nature, the more the mystery deepens. The more a scientist knows, the more he realizes there is to know. Science, though appearing to resolve the mystery in creation, has deepened it. Knowledge of particles, wave functions, black holes and the vacuum state have only deepened the mystery.

Mantra Rahasya (the secret of mantras): Mantras are the impulses or rhythms of consciousness. The mantras and their effect, influence, method and mode of working are all a mystery.

In the West, a secret is usually shameful and dishonest. However, in the East, a secret is honored and considered sacred. Mysteries of the creation only deepen. Getting steeped in mystery is devotion.

Deepening the mystery of creation is science. Deepening the mystery of the Self is spirituality. They are the two sides of the same coin. If neither science nor spirituality can create wonder and devotion in you, then you are in deep slumber.

Whenever you consider a symbol, place, time, person or act as sacred, your attention is undivided and whole. When things are the same, you tend to slip into unawareness and inertia. Why does an act that is performed repeatedly lose its sacredness? This happens when your memory overpowers your consciousness and you lose your sensitivity. For example, people living in Benaras, a holy city in India, do not feel that it is a sacred place. Through living in the present moment and through sadhana, spiritual practices, we can preserve that feeling of sacredness in our acts.

There is a pleasure in rest and there is a pleasure in activity. The pleasure in activity is momentary and causes fatigue. The pleasure in rest is magnanimous and energizing. To the one who has tasted pleasure in rest (samadhi), the pleasure in activity is insignificant. But In order to have deep rest, one must be active. The proper balance of both is essential.

The Mind
Let us examine the five factors that influence the mind: space, time, food, past impressions, and associations and actions.

Space: The place you are in. Every place you are in has a different impact on the mind. Even in your house, you can see that you feel different in different rooms. A place where there has been singing, chanting and meditation has a different influence on the mind. Suppose you like a particular place, you may find that a little later it will not be the same.

Time: Time is also a factor. Different times of the day and year have different influences on the mind.

Food: Different types of food that you eat influence you for a few days.

Past impressions or karmas: have a different impact on the mind. Awareness, alertness, knowledge and meditation all help erase past impressions.

Associations and actions: The people and events you are associated with influence your mind. With certain people your mind behaves one way and with others a different way.

Although these five factors influence your life and your mind, know that the Self is more powerful. As you grow in knowledge, you influence them all.

Restlessness
Now let us examine the types of restlessness and its remedies. There are five types of restlessness:

The first is due to the place you are in. When you move away from certain places, streets or houses, you immediately feel better. Chanting, singing, or the innocence of children playing and laughing can change this atmospheric restlessness. If you chant and sing, the vibration in the place changes.

The second type of restlessness is in the body. Eating the wrong food, Vata-aggravating food, eating at odd times, not exercising, and overworking can all cause physical restlessness. The remedy for this is exercise, moderation in work habits and a one to two day vegetable or juice diet.

The third type of restlessness is mental restlessness. It is caused by ambition, strong thoughts, likes or dislikes. Knowledge alone can cure this restlessness; this includes seeing life from a broader perspective, knowing about the Self and realizing the impermanence of everything. If you achieve everything, so what? After your achievement, you will die. Knowledge of your death or life, confidence in the Self and in the Divine can all calm down mental restlessness.

There is also emotional restlessness. Any amount of knowledge does not help here. Sudarshan Kriya helps! All that emotional restlessness vanishes. Also the presence of the Guru, a wise person, or a saint will help calm emotional restlessness.

The fifth type of restlessness is rare. It is the restlessness of the Soul. When everything feels empty and meaningless, know you are very fortunate. Do not try to get rid of it. Embrace it! This restlessness of the Soul can bring authentic prayer in you. It brings perfection, Siddhis and miracles in life. It is so precious to get that innermost longing for the Divine. Satsang and the presence of enlightened ones, soothe the restlessness of the Soul. Do not look for the Divine somewhere in the sky. See God in every pair of eyes, in the mountains, water, trees and animals. How? Only when you see God in yourself. Only Gods can worship Gods.

Heightened awareness brings you close to the reality. And for this, you have to increase your prana. This can be done through: 1. Fasting and eating fresh food 2. Pranayamas, Sudarshan Kriya, and meditation 3. Silence 4. Cold water baths 5. The right amount of sleep 6. Emotional contentment 7. Presence of the Master 8. Singing and chanting 9. Giving without Givership and service without Doership

All of these together is Yagya. When you have reverence for the whole universe, you are in harmony with the whole universe. Then, you do not need to reject or renounce anything. When you have reverence in all your relationships, your own consciousness expands; Even small things appear to be significant and big. Every little creature appears dignified. It is the reverence in every relationship that saves the relationship. Cultivate the skill of having reverence for every moment in your life.

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Stop Comparing Yourself with Others – every one is unique

You all keep on searching for perfect things in life like perfect friend, perfect lover or perfect gadget, but this thinking doesn’t stop here only, you even want yourself to be perfect. And the major cause to make you perfect is comparison with others. You keep on watching others and start comparing yourself with them. In doing so you seldom feel your self-esteem becoming stronger and it is more likely to be a short-lived inflation of your ego.
You even don’t realize that while comparing with others you forget your own identity and start living the way others live, just because you want to show off that you are better than others.
To avoid this habit you just need to take care of 3 things:

• Don’t “copy” get “inspired”

Comparing with others is only good when it is done in positive way to get inspiration not to copy others. There is difference between both but with very minute difference. You won’t even realize that when you are crossing the thin line between the two. If you compare yourself with others and try to copy them then you will lose your own identity. But when you will compare yourself with others because you are inspired from them then you will reach to heights of success.

• You are unique

Always remember that everyone had some or other positive points and everyone is unique and it includes you too. This is the only thing which common in all of us that “we all are unique”. This is really bad that you keep on feeling inferior because others are better than you in any work. It will result in lower down your confidence and you will start feeling jealous.

• Be Yourself

You already have lots of good qualities because of which your parents and friends loves you. This is your own life, live the life in your way. Don’t try to change for other while comparing with others. You should love yourself the way you are. Think positive and you will start acting same way. Once you are positive and confident about yourself, you will enrich the life of your loved ones too.

Here are some steps you can take to handle criticism effectively:

1. Acknowledge Your Error -

Acknowledging a mistake is not the same as acknowledging that you are an inferior person/a failure. If you believe the criticism is accurate, take full responsibility. Don’t blame something or someone else and don’t make excuses. If appropriate, offer a diplomatic apology: I’m sorry that my actions led to that result. It certainly was not my intention. Again, if appropriate, ask for suggestions on how you can improve your performance the next time.

2. Take Corrective Action -

After you ve heard the other person out completely, and listened to any suggestions for improvement, state/communicate your eagerness to improve in the future. If appropriate, describe any actions you will take at his time to counterbalance your previous error.

3. Acknowledge the other persons motive -

Thank the other person for the feedback and make sure to state how valuable you consider it. This demonstrates your ability to use criticism as a way to improve an essential quality of a leader. In addition, let the other person know that you are open to receiving his or her feedback in the future.

Even when you don’t care for the style in which criticism is presented, be thankful that the other person is willing to give you feedback, and along with it, an opportunity to improve.

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* In normal conditions i.e. applying brakes on a straight road.
* Applying brakes during a turn.
* Applying a sudden brake to prevent an accident (may be in a straight road or while taking a turn)

Nowadays most of the bikes are equipped with disc brakes in the front; hence it’s quite obvious that you need to apply less effort in the front being hydraulic brake and more in the rear being drum brake

If you press the front disc brake too hard, then it may skid the bike or it may convert into a stoppie and land you on the ground touching your head first, and it could cause a very serious accident.

If you press the rear brake too hard then also your bike may skid, hence it could cause a serious accident too.

With respect to above 3 conditions (a, b, c), for efficient braking you need to apply both the brakes together. Now when applying both the brakes simultaneously, how much effort you need to put in applying the front brake (in case of disc) and how much effort is required in the rear one (drum brake), so that both your wheels get appropriate braking power from your brakes without skidding the bike, that you will learn through experience.
Downshifting During Braking

Every gear has its own speed range; hence you need to shift the gears accordingly depending on your speed. For Example in case of a 150 CC bike, 1st gear is meant to drive in a speed range of 0-35 Km/h.

Suppose you are driving at 110 Km/h and you need to come to a standstill position, then if you downshift your gears while applying brakes, just keep in your mind at what speed you are downshifting to which gear. While applying brake from 110 Km/h if you have downshifted your bike to 2nd gear from 5th and if your bike is still running at 90 Km/h then it could damage your gears badly although it would give you a good retardation but this is not the proper braking technique.

Hence I suggest, while braking from 110 km/h to standstill, first you should leave the throttle & apply brakes without pressing the clutch (as in released clutch position the bike is engaged to the engine and it also gives a bit of retardation to the bike while braking) then let your bike come to a speed of 50-40 Km/h then press the clutch and then you may downshift the gears to 5th -4th -3rd – 2nd with ease.

Allowing the bike to retard in a clutch released position until it stops completely at a point is not a good idea, as it will wobble the bike at lower speeds if engaged in gear and the engine will also turn off automatically.

Cheers to bikeadvice.in

* ‘Read’ pictures of the two of you: It’s tricky to be objective about your love life. Take a step back by looking at photos as if you’re one of your friends viewing you. Consider how close you appear: if you look like you’re really into each other or if there’s a definite sense of ambivalence.

* Notice what you edit out: The details you omit when talking to others about your man point to potential red flags. Haven’t had sex in a month? Arguing more? Maybe you’re afraid it’ll sound bad, but it’s key to look at these when assessing your bond.

* Compare yourself to the Joneses: Your friends see you juxtaposed with other twosomes, so think about how you and your man differ from couples you know: do you make more or less physical contact? Do you smile and laugh as much as they do?

* Decode your own body language: One reason friends can read your relationship so well is that they observe how you interact physically. You can do the same. Signs you’re solid: your feet turn towards his; you mirror each other’s movements.

* Check out old e-mails: Another thing friends observe is how you communicate—whether your dialogue is natural and fun or strained. Get a sense of it by going through past e-mails and G-chats. These will give you valuable clues.

Love Y!

While no woman would turn down a dozen red roses, find out the other messages you can send by giving a different color or blending the colors in your bouquet.

Red: Love and Romance

One of the most universal of all symbols, the red rose represents true love. It has also appeared throughout history and across cultures as both a political and religious symbol.

Yellow: Friendship, Joy, Get Well

Throughout history, yellow has been closely associated with the sun, making these roses excellent for cheering people up. Yellow roses send a message of appreciation and platonic love without the romantic subtext of other colors. The color represents feelings of joy and delight.

Pink: Love, Gratitude, Appreciation

Pink carries with it the connotation of grace and elegance, as well as sweetness and poetic romance.

Dark pink roses are symbolic of gratitude and appreciation, and are a traditional way to say thanks.

Light pink roses are associated with gentleness and admiration, and can also be used as an expression of sympathy.

White: Purity, Innocence, Sympathy, Spirituality

Early tradition used white roses as a symbol for true love, an association which would later become the hallmark of the red rose. Also known as the bridal rose, the white rose is a traditional wedding flower. In this sense, white represents unity, virtue, and the pureness of a new love. White roses are also associated with honor and reverence, which makes them a fitting memorial for a departed loved one.

Orange: Desire, Enthusiasm and Passion

A literal mixture of yellow and red, orange roses were seen as a bridge between friendship symbolized by yellow roses and love represented by red roses. They can be an expression of fascination, or a gift to say ‘I’m proud of you.’

Roses to Shine Y!

Usually a headache is just a headache, and heartburn is nothing more than a sign that you rang the Taco Bell once too often. Except when they’re not.

Pain is your body’s way of telling you that something isn’t quite right. More often than not, you have some idea of what’s behind it. But when it comes on suddenly, lingers longer than usual, or just seems different, it calls for medical attention–and the sooner, the better. According to our experts, all of the following pain conditions should be considered red flags
1. Chest pain
“If patients were to become well versed in what I think of as the subtle language of the heart, many could avoid needless worry and expense,” notes Arthur Agatston, MD, a preventive cardiologist. “Studies have found that women experience a wider range of heart attack symptoms than men do.” In Agatston’s experience, there are three good indicators that something isn’t right, and they can occur in either gender. They are chest pain that doesn’t go away, varied shortness of breath, and any upper body pain that hasn’t occurred before. If you experience any of these symptoms, he says, you should call your doctor or 911 immediately.
2. Severe head pain
Chances are, it’s a migraine. But if it isn’t accompanied by other migraine symptoms (such as a visual aura), sudden, severe head pain can signal a brain aneurysm. “A burst aneurysm can cause brain damage within minutes, so you need to call 911 immediately,” advises Elsa-Grace Giardina, MD, a cardiologist and director of the Center for Women’s Health at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University Medical Center.
3. A throbbing tooth
It’s likely that the tooth’s nerve has become damaged, probably because the surrounding pearly white enamel is cracked or rotting away. Unless you get it patched up quickly, bacteria in your mouth can invade the nerve. And you definitely don’t want that breeding colony to spread throughout your body, says Kimberly Harms, DDS, a dentist outside St. Paul, Minnesota. If your tooth is already infected, you’ll require a root canal, in which the tooth’s bacteria-laden pulp is removed and replaced with plastic caulking material.
4. Sharp pain in your side
You may just need some Beano. But if you feel as if you’re being skewered in your right side, and you’re also nauseated and running a fever, you could have appendicitis. For women, another possibility is an ovarian cyst. Typically these fluid-filled sacs are harmless and disappear on their own. But if one twists or ruptures, it can cause terrible pain.

In both cases, you’re looking at emergency surgery. “If you don’t remove an inflamed appendix, it can burst,” says Lin Chang, MD, a gastroenterologist and co-director of the Center for Neurovisceral Sciences and Women’s Health at UCLA. A twisted cyst also needs to be removed right away, as it can block blood flow to the ovary within hours.
5. Abdominal discomfort with gas or bloating
For the past month, you’ve felt gassy and bloated more days than not, and it takes fewer slices of pizza to fill you up than it once did. If the symptoms are new, the worst-case scenario is ovarian cancer. In 2007, the Gynecologic Cancer Foundation released the first national consensus on early symptoms of this form of cancer: bloating, pelvic or abdominal pain, and difficulty eating. If you start experiencing them almost daily for more than two or three weeks, consider it a red flag. Schedule an appointment with your ob-gyn to discuss your symptoms.
6. Back pain with tingling toes
If you’ve just helped your cousin move into her new fourth-floor apartment, anti-inflammatories should banish the pain. But if they don’t work, hobble to an orthopedist. “One of your discs (the spongy rings that cushion the bones in your spine) could be pressing on the spinal nerve,” says Letha Griffin, MD, an orthopedist and sports medicine specialist in Atlanta. Without proper attention, you risk permanent nerve damage.

7. Leg pain with swelling
Your calf is extremely tender in one location, noticeably swollen, and red or warm to the touch. You might have deep-vein thrombosis (DVT), commonly known as a blood clot. Resist the urge to massage the area or to try walking off the pain. If the clot breaks free, it can travel through your veins up to your lungs and cut off your oxygen supply. Instead, see your doctor right away. He or she will do a CT scan or ultrasound to check for a DVT. If that’s what you have, you’ll need to take blood thinners–sometimes for up to a year–to dissolve it, says Suzanne Steinbaum, MD, director of women and heart disease for the Heart and Vascular Institute at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City.

Thanks Y!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Fresher than ever.

Crunchy numbers

A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 3,100 times in 2010. That’s about 7 full 747s.

In 2010, there were 82 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 186 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 13mb. That’s about 4 pictures per week.

The busiest day of the year was October 21st with 70 views. The most popular post that day was How I Work: Bill Gates.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were alphainventions.com, linkedin.com, stumbleupon.com, cyberabis.wordpress.com, and twitter.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for owls, pictures of owls, cute girl, meditation, and titanic’s current news.

Attractions in 2010

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Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

Beautiful lines  is in’t?

Enjoyed reading,  leaves us with a really positive note taken from VaniSimpleGirl

Every time you comb your hair or wear your favourite Dress, you are erm…embarrassed by those snowy flakes. Dandruff is ugh and causes problems like itching and acne.

Here are some homemade remedies that will help you get rid of dandruff. (some time permanently too)

The cause
Dandruff is a scalp ailment and can be cured by keeping your scalp clean. Avoid shampoign your hair everyday to keep dandruff away. Another way is to skip fried foods and chocolates.

Home remedies
Boil a few neem leaves. Cool and then filter the solution. Use this as a last rinse after you shampoo. You can also mix a few sweet neem leaves with basil (tulsi) leaves, grind it into a paste and apply it on your hair for half an hour. Wash this off to get lustrous, dandruff-free locks.

Grandma’s advice
Soak a handful of fenugreek seeds overnight in water, grind it to a fine paste in the morning and apply it for a half hour on your scalp. Wash this off with soap-nut (reetha) solution and rinse with shikakai to condition. Follow this regimen faithfully for beautiful tresses.

Bedtime care
Boil beetroot in water and gently massage the liquid into your hair before sleeping. You can also massage your hair with stale curd or a simple concoction of lime and amla juice. Curd is an excellent conditioner, while lime keeps that dandruff away.

Steam therapy
This is the most commonly used way to tackle dandruff and mostly never fails. Gently massage warm coconut oil onto your scalp. Apply the juice of two limes. Now, dip a towel in hot water and cover your scalp and hair with it. Wash it off after two hours for soft, shiny hair. Alternately, apply the paste of raw papaya on your hair and leave it on for ten minutes before shampooing.

There you are! Try these homemade tricks to get rid of dandruff forever & ever yaar!!

Thanks idiva

• Inspect your feet daily – Look carefully for blisters, calluses, sores and cuts, especially between toes. Consult a dermatologist if you notice something wrong with the skin.
• Wash and moisten your feet – Wash your feet with warm, not hot, water daily. Don’t soak your feet. Dry them well, especially between the toes. To keep your feet from getting too dry, use a small amount of moisturiser daily.
• Get the right shoes – Make sure your shoes fit well. Stay away from pointed shoes, which crowd the toes, and those with seams inside the toe box, which can irritate them.
• Avoid stinky feet – Wear clean dry socks everyday and change them often if your feet get sweaty. Comfortable shoes that allow your feet to breath will prevent them from sweating and decrease the chances of foot odor developing.
• Massage them – Treat your feet to a pedicure or massage every two to three months to keep your feet smooth and clean.

Cheered by TOI

In China there are fake schools and classes that teach a variety of blatant fraud technology, even eggs can be modulated by chemical materials, but also be able to fry cook, is currently the most popular False course & very dangerous to health

Here’s the process in making of fake eggs

Step 1 modulation of raw materials

Using 7 kinds of chemical materials, see below picture

Fake egg was made from the materials of calcium carbonate, starch, resin, gelatin, alum and other chemical products.

Step 2 egg production

Raw egg into the mold to 2 / 3 full, put calcium chloride, coloring die, the egg appears on the film been announced.

The ‘yolk’ is shaped in the round mold. ‘Magic water’ containing calcium chloride is used.

By adding a yellow pigment and become raw egg yolk..

Step 3 fake egg shape

In the mold into 1 / 3 raw egg white, like the first package, like dumplings into the egg yolk, egg white into another, into the magic water, a shell eggs will come slowly. Naked egg shape to 1 hour to dry after washing with water, at shells ready.

Step 4

Sewing lines through the use of eggs, immersed in paraffin wax, calcium carbonate, such as modulation of the eggshell into a solution, repeated several times until the shell a little dry, immersion in cold water pumping line shape, this point, the egg has been put on a false cloak , You’re done.

Hard shells are formed by soaking in paraffin wax onto the egg, which are then left to dry.

Oh yeah The Egg is ready. The artificial egg shell is very fragile and break easily but who cares!!

Look so real

Many small bubbles is formed during frying the egg but not many people can tell the difference.

The egg look exactly the same, and the eggs taste better than real but you are adding to the

statistic of food poisoning person.

Why make fake eggs ?

Because of money.

The cost of fake egg is only 0.55 Yuan/kg, while the true egg in the  market price is 5.6 Yuan/kg.
Hazards caused by using fake eggs
Cases of problem foods and food poisoning are widely reported in Mainland China over the last few years.. In 2001, there were 185 cases of food poisoning, affecting about 15,715 people and causing 146 deaths. The cases doubled in 2002. In 2003, the number of reported cases was ten times more than that in 2001, and the number of people suffered was as high as 29,660, including 262 deaths Now In Sept 2008 Nearly 53,000 Chinese children sick from contaminated milk; 4 have died.

Hearty thanks to Funzug

Sigh. I wish every guy had this magical ability to see through what us girls want from them, and then do precisely that. So this post is dedicated to all those clueless boyfriends/husbands; my sincere wish is that you find some answers with this post.

Okay look. Let’s face it. We girls are simple creatures. We like to be loved, pampered and spoilt. But, but, but… before you make up your conclusion, know this. Sometimes its just not that simple. And man, you have to keep up.

This nice story on match.com gives a super explanation of how you men can bond better with us women. And trust me, if you follow these instructions, you will have a seriously happy partner (which makes a seriously happy you, right?)

Laura Schaefer, the author of ‘Man with Farm Seeks Woman with Tractor: The Best and Worst Personal Ads of All Time‘, wrote this story called 5 tips for bonding with her better, and here are some really reliable (believe me) tips she has given.

These are:

1. Pay attention to the little things
So true. If I mention to my guy while he is off at work, that I just got a really bad cough and cold suddenly, would I be happy if that evening, he brings home a huge family pack of ice-cream (even though it’s my favourite)? No na. I rest my case.

2. To keep up with her memory, take notes
It’s a scientific fact: women remember everything. And that is why the daily planner was invented. So if we ask you to get the ironed clothes from the ironing-guy on your way home, there is a reason why we ask. All you have to do it remember to get it, or wear a crumpled shirt to work tomorrow.

3. Follow her calm lead versus instigating fights
In public places, especially in restaurants, how many times have you wanted to punch the waiter for getting the wrong item? Relax. That’s you. But if you want to score extra brownie points with your woman, do keep that aggression (and tone as well) to the minimum and the politeness to the max.

4. Write her a poem… or at least a cute email
Yes. Yes. Yes. I know you guys may not be Lord Byrons and John Keats of the world; but hey, a romantic little handwritten note, or a cute e-card (no excuses, there are sooo many e-card websites) once in a while would be such a bonus … for you.

5. Be her serotonin
Now, there is a reason why women are much more emotional than men. It’s a proven fact that women’s brains produce much less serotonin — the ‘happy’ brain chemical — than male brains do. What does that mean? It simply means, we need to vent if we have a hard day at work, and we want your full attention. Also, a foot rub or massage would be such a bonus … again, for you. After all, you are scoring all those points, aren’t you?

Cheered by Y!

1. Keep your eye-cream in the fridge : For quick under-eye depuffing. The cold constricts blood vessels to help swelling go down- and it feels extra refreshing.

2. An at-home gloss treatment :  Dramatically amps up shine and refreshes your highlights, giving your face a happy boost. Try: L’Oreal Paris Colorist Secrets Shine Gloss, $9.

3. Define your eyebrows : A pair of full, arched brows works like an instant eye lift. Pluck errant hairs and fill in sparse areas with a fine-tipped brow pencil.

4. Apply a firming body cream : Toned, taut skin is the age-defying holy grail (see: Demi Moore). Try: Jergens Skin Firming Daily Toning Moisturizer, $5.

5. Have your stylist snip you some layers : Hair that moves lifts your features and just looks fun and free.

6. Take a brisk 30 minute walk :  whenever you can sneak one in. You’ll jump start your metabolism and circulation and it’ll give you a nice rosy glow.

7. Short nails : painted sheer and pink give off a young, fun vibe and make your hands look effortlessly flawless. Try: Essie’s Ballet Slippers, $8.

Cheered by Y!

5 Drinks That Help You Calm Down

1. Drink a glass of milk. It contains tryptophan, which as it is metabolized is converted to mood-boosting serotonin. Plus, its calcium, magnesium and potassium content may help keep blood pressure down.

2. Drink hot cocoa. Warm drinks raise your body temperature—a feeling we associate with comfort, so it triggers a similar response in our brains.

3. Order black tea instead of coffee. A study by University College London shows that drinking black tea four times a day for six weeks lowered the stress hormone cortisol after a stressful event.

4. Drink green tea—packed with theanine, which increases the brain’s output of relaxation-inducing alpha waves and reduces the output of tension-making beta waves.

5. Drink a glass of cold water, then go for a walk outside. The water gets your blood moving and the air invigorates by stimulating the endorphins that de-stress you.

Now here in this post let me say how can you be fit with the Yoga, scroll through !!

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